-Infidelity is a very common problem among couples that often ends in separation or divorce, but what happens to men who decide not to leave their wives ?
According to Dr. César Lozano , men who have a mistress and cling to their family life and their wife seek the pleasure of being with a woman as if she were “a dessert,” but they don’t want to lose their “daily meal,” which they get at home.
-Although there are several attitudes that would betray an unfaithful man, there are women who also decide to turn a blind eye so as not to lose their family dynamic or their financial stability.
Private detective Tom Martin revealed to The Guardian some of the most common behaviors cheaters engage in that give them away: changes in routine, sudden business trips, absences from family events, overtime at work, and more.
1. Comfort
Even if he enjoys having an extramarital affair, the unfaithful man longs to return home to a place where he’ll find his life sorted, enjoy the space he’s built over the years, and, of course, a clean house, cooked meals, neat clothes, and a loving wife.
2. He lies when he says he doesn’t love his wife
Some men swear to their lovers that they no longer love their wives, even swearing they’re in the process of getting a divorce, when this isn’t true. The reality is that they do love their wives and are just looking for another woman to break the monotony.
3. Love for children
The unfaithful man fears that when the marriage ends or his infidelity is discovered, his relationship with his children will deteriorate or he will not be able to have the same contact with them, so he lives in a marriage that may no longer make him happy.
4. Fear of separation
The fear or boredom of facing divorce proceedings, separation of assets, child custody battles, and even moving causes many men to prefer to lead a double life.
5. He doesn’t look for love in another woman
According to the specialist, many men aren’t looking for a stable partner or “the love of their life.” They’re just looking for sexual satisfaction or a break from their routine, but they’re not actually serious about their lover.
